What We Are Doing

 In going forward with our look into mental illness and BDSM we will lean heavily toward bi-polar. We have personal experience with this so we are most  fluent in it.  That is not to say we do not deal with other conditions, it is on a case by case basis as some deal with stimulus better than others.  Many forward thinking doctors l agree that the DSM is used to prescribe medications. Mental health is on a spectrum. Not all  Bipolar 2s are going to share the exact same symptoms in the exact same ways. Just as survivors of sexual abuse can adapt in very different ways. Some might become hyper sexual while others  shut down sexually altogether.

“Why is there no mention of furries , littles , primals or my obsession with vampires, pirates Vikings etc? “

Because those things might fall into fetishes, but they are kink not BDSM. The same can be said of primarily sex based activity. No matter how far from vanilla sex these are. This includes fisting, sex bot and sex machines While it can be given sexual energy, BDSM in and of itself is about the power exchange and not sex. If it is just done for sexual stimulation without the power exchange it is a fetish not BDSM. this can crossover if it is intended to debase or humiliate the subject.  We are trying to facilitate and empathic healing experience as a top in the capacity of providing a therapeutic service. 

It is a misnomer that providing service is submissive. Medical play is a good example of this. It also shows where a kink crosses over into BDSM. The doctor or the nurse is in control of the actions performed so take on the role of top. This would change if the tables were turned, and the nurse was forced to perform oral sex on the patient in a consensual non consent fashion. If the patient was restrained and the nurse performed oral sex on them on their own accord then they would retain the top position. Given the nature of the work we are trying to do, consensual non consent as a form of exposure therapy is the very last thing we will discuss. It is the final frontier as it takes  a much greater sense of trust to suspend that sense of disbelief without being triggered. 

If you have questions or wish to discuss this path in further detail, please feel free to contact. When contacting, introduce yourself and state your interest and questions. Be very clear cut in what you would like to know, if you are unsure what your specific question is then say I am new but curious and we can provide information from there. As you can imagine we get all kinds of responses so we have to be direct in our dealings. Thank You for reading.