Where the Crying ends

 

We are not asking you to believe anything on blind faith . We are  asking you to keep an open mind. This might not be comfortable. Discomfort is often accompanied by growth . It is said that growth begins at the end of your comfort zone. For now all you need to commit to is reading this blog. . Even experienced people in “the BDSM lifestyle  might find the angle we are coming at it from  odd. Others might see it as  even watered down. To them we ask “How is the quality of your life?” . Is engaging in play with a greater awareness is not something you  want ? 

The answer might be no. These days people  bury themselves in their phone to remain insulated in the bubble of their perception. This would not surprise us. We all like to feel good. We are addicted to it. How is it working for you? We never seek escape from our proudest moments. The healthier we are the more comfortable we are in our own skin. If you are in great health and not  overweight or over stressed, you might not need to hear any of this. Then carry on and further your curiosity.. We hope you will be entertained and find more ideas for feeling good .If your medicine cabinet is not as full as your liquor cabinet and you get more face to face time with your real life friends than Facebook, then you are also welcome to be a voyeur here. 

If you feel disconnected from family and friends, burned out on a job that is your entire identity and are enduring lies rather than enjoying it , then you might be ready to take a look at what got you there . You want to reconnect with yourself. You do have to have hit an emotional bottom or have had a mental breakdown in order to benefit from looking inward and rearranging the chairs. You can get off the elevator at any floor and do not have to go all the way down. Who said you had to stay fully dressed and not have fun in the process of fixing all this anyway?  Don’t worry we are not trying to turn you into the Marquis DeSade, just find a deeper connection with others by finding a deeper connection to yourself. 

But I am a dominant person I do not need any of this you argue. You need it more because if you are not in control of your self then how can you control others. How are you even worthy of controlling someone? Here come the cries of gatekeeping, saying bdsm is only for people with their shit together. Nevermind the fact this program is for people who do not, but these days logic is not so common so we have to explain things for the babies in the room. By babies we are not talking littles either. Whining attention seekers how have allowed outbursts of outrage to become their only coping mechanism. They are super prevalent in the kink community, as they tend to spring from the social misfits who are drawn to kink. They like getting their way and do not like working for it. Spoiled by an age of instant gratification it is easy to see how they go to this place. Here is where the crying ends and accountability begins. They healthiest you is what we are going for. This is also the most accountable one who has to own up to their bullshit and childishness, all ye who enter here know the bullshit stops at the door. .